You may be “just married” or must have been married for ages, but it is just too easy to fall into the monotony of conjugal life, and start taking your partner for granted. In case this is something you don’t want to happen to your married life, go ahead and shower your husband with affection. Here are some tips to help you do so.
Say the three words more often
Even if words were never your strong point, it won’t hurt you to say “I love you” to him once in a while. Of course it is obvious that you love him, or else you wouldn’t be married to him in the first place. It would make his day by just hearing you say it in the first place.
Snuggle with him
It is often said that cuddling is a woman’s domain and men just hate it. But nothing could be more farther from the truth than this. Your husband might act like a Spartan, but rest assured, he too looks forward to getting cozy with you just as much as you do.
Cook up a storm
A man’s love for gastronomy is well known and a wife who can cook a delicious meal will beat the next door bimbo any day. So even if you are not very proud of your culinary skills, do try to cook for him once in a while. The fact that you tried will show your affection for him.
Dress up for him
Don’t just lie around in your sweatpants, instead, dress up for your man once in a while. Go out with him and have fun. Remember that once you start getting too comfortable and take your marriage for granted, you are headed towards doom. So keep the spark alive and show your husband that your affection for him hasn’t diminished even a bit.
Don’t smother him
A lot of men complain that their wives never let them live in peace and they feel suffocated in their marriage. So try to avoid being that type of wife, and give your man some space. Let him hang out with his friends or spend some time alone, and he will love you for it.
Get him something
Why should it always be the man who gets you gifts? Everyone likes to be pampered once in a while irrespective of the gender. So get him something that you know he fancies, and see his face light up.
Tell your husband how great he is and how lucky you are to have him in your life. Small words of appreciation can boost his spirits like nothing else can, and it won’t even cost you a cent.
Experiment in bed
What better way to show your affection for him than giving him the time of his life in bed? Spice up your sex life and stop being a bore. Don’t think twice before surprising him.