Things You Learn From Your Ex-Boyfriend

1. ‘Forever’ Means Till The Relationship Lasts

‘Forever’ is a word that you must have heard over and over again in your relationship. Your boyfriend must have often used this word while expressing his love to you. Many-a-times, he must have told you that he will love you forever. You must be surprised that has changed today. You may think, he was lying.

2. Your Boyfriend’s Friends Are Not Your Friends

During the course of your relationship, many of his friends must have gotten really close to you. They must have been treating you as if you are their friend. But now that your relationship has ended, hardly any of them will even bother to keep in touch with you. You might find them avoiding you as well. Even if it is his fault, they will stand by him. 

3. Getting Family Involved Is Subject To Risks

Not all families are the same. Dealing with an ex-boyfriend can be difficult. To top it, if you also have to deal with your ex-boyfriend’s family, it can be a real pain. One case is they may blame you and go about talking bad things about you. The other case is, they may get extremely emotional and beg you to come back to your ex-boyfriend. Another bad thing is dealing with your own family.

4. Getting Intimate Too Soon Might Be A Mistake

This goes to both physical intimacy as well as sharing your secrets with them. There are plenty of pervs out there. As you’re a pretty lady, many boys would only want to get into your pants. Hence it is very important to give your relationship some time before you get intimate with your boyfriend. Get to know him, understand him and when you are 100% sure that he is serious about you, you can take your relationship to the next level.

5. A New Method To Break Up

Seldom will you find a boy who tells his girlfriend the real reason while breaking up with her. This can be justified. After all, when you’re ending your relationship with someone you cannot always tell them something like, “I’m in love with someone else” or “You’re too predictable so I don’t like you”. Instead you can use excuses like “I’m not ready for a relationship” . When your boyfriend breaks up with you, he may use one such method.