Making New Year resolutions are common with most people wherein some of us keep it for life and a few others attempt to break it the very next day. Valentine’s Day resolutions are made by those in love and intend to cast away some undesirable habit or item in order to better their love life and improve relationship quotient with their dear one. Many lovers across the world make Valentine’s Day resolutions and some of the very popular and common ones are listed below. You may choose to follow suit, if you like them!
1.Think twice before arguing: Problems and arguments are common in any relationship and happen more so between a couple in love. While nothing much can be done about putting an end to an argument altogether and it is not healthy either, choosing words you use is something that you could genuinely battle to do. Often, in anger, individuals tend to overreact and state things that they may not have meant even in their wildest imagination. This may hurt your dear one and may sometimes even be irreparable. Try as much as you can to think before hurling a statement that you do not mean. This resolution is best taken on any day and holds the most value on Valentine’s Day.
2.Learn the art of patience: It may not be the easiest thing but that is what resolutions are made for – attempting to do something that you are not the least good at but beneficial for you and for saving the relationship. Even in the midst of a heated argument and even when inappropriate words are being hurled at you, demonstrating the art of patience does not just save a relationship but also escalates your level of respect before your lover. It also goes a long way in showing that you love and really care.
3.Strive to do things together: Love blossoms and develops when there is mutual interest over an activity or more. Both of you will realize that you are making each other happy in something that each desires to do. It could be helping the lady with chores or getting to wash the car with the man. Watching movies together or going out for shopping for the other and just about any activity that pleases the other by showing genuine interest helps.
4.Work towards spending quality time: Work may have had the potential to distract your relationship and the much needed time to love. Make it a point or make an important note in your planner to get to do things in the best of your interests. Gifting, traveling, vacationing, indulging in your hobbies or just hours of talking no sense can all be qualified to do the much needed job of rejuvenating your relationship and offering meaning to it.
Fortunately, there is no exhaustive list of resolutions made on Valentine’s Day. If you are crazy in love, try making a resolution this day to bring a smile on your love’s face. And more importantly, strive to keep it. Finally when you honor your resolution every time, notice your new and improved love life.